How is NLP Coaching different from giving advice?

Have you ever given great advice, but it was immediately discounted – like the other person couldn’t even hear it?

NLP Coach Training can help you transform how people think, how well they hear you, so they get out of stuck and find their own answers.

I had a client come in..we’ll call her Sally, and she was stuck. She lived with her mom, her mom was aging and was independent, could care for herself, but Sally didn’t want her living on her own.

She had also taken in her tween nephew. She cared about these people, and was committed to their welfare.

But she felt lost in the routine: work – eat – sleep, and there was no time for what she really wanted…. She wanted to travel.

I offered good advice. “What if you just took an overnight somewhere locally, you could have the experience of exploring and aventure in a small way?”

She immediately discounted the advice. “I couldn’t do that, I can’t leave them alone.”

Oh, I could see she wasn’t in the mode to hear solutions – not yet.

Sometimes when the mind and body are in stuck mode – solutions are too far out of reach. There is a disconnect.

When people are in vent mode, they can’t actually hear solutions.

What’s the solution? Let her mind pick her own solution.

I remember working with at risk teens in the backpacking programs, when you tell someone directly, “you will do this..” they feel at odds with what you say, even if you are right – and you telling them directly even steals their confidence and their sense of “figureitoutabililty.”

Telling someone directly what to do can bristle and even wake up the inner rebel.

Don’t get me wrong, everyone needs a good inner rebel.

That part of us that knows what we actually want – the part of us that is determined and willing to forge its own path and stand up for ourselves.

But when the rebel is fired up – it could turn to power games.

Power games mean that someone wins and someone loses. And we don’t get what we want. And solutions are skewed or sacrificed for our need to be right.

Even when you win an argument with someone, you may have won the argument, but the other person’s feeling of defeat eats away at the connection – jeopardizing the relationship – as a power imbalance.

So how do you stay away from power games so you can influence others for the good?

We are always persuading, inviting others to hear our opinion, our perspectives. But if you feel your words aren’t landing.

That good advice is ignored. Or they are just not hearing you…you’re just not getting through.

Learn the nuances of Empowerment, Motivation and Inspiration by speaking with the Hidden Psyche.

Learn to persuade, invite and inspire – in a way that empowers those around you.

Whether its the people you love. Or the people you work with.

When you learn the secrets of the hidden psyche – you discover a clear way – to getting more of what you want in personal relationships and even in professional connections.

And you also learn how to protect your own psyche from manipulation, from power games and win-lose scenarios.

And what about Sally? I took her through Hypnosis to get out of the state of frustration, to clear and calm the mind and find her own answers from her higher self.

At the end of her session I asked. “What advice did your higher self give you?”

“Oh, yes I can take a weekend away to do things I want and recharge my energy. Me being pissed off all the time isn’t helping them or myself.”

“Interesting, yes”….(Isn’t that what I said in the beginning?) Lol, but it wasn’t about the advice – it was about her getting to her clear state so she could recognize her solutions.

And empowering her to listen to her higher self.

Want to learn the nuances of Empowering, Motivating and Inspiring Conversationally?

You don’t have to take people into hypnotic trance to get the change.

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